Ok, a quick bloghopping took me to sheela’s site. “Love is not for cowards“, A quick snippet is as follows…
Get real about relationships
Life — and love — isn’t a Hollywood movie. But it can feel like a Hollywood movie when you first go out with someone, can’t it? At the beginning, ‘romantic’ love helps us overcome many hurdles, we are still able to relate to … the idealised self-image of each other, and we haven’t had time to get down to day-to-day living. After a period of time, your own issues, and your partner’s, start to surface. It’s inevitable that we activate conflicts in each other, how we handle them is what matters.
Baki, thanks for this…for something we can relate to. deadz
